Showing posts with label happy relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label happy relationships. Show all posts
07 November 2014

Prayer in marriage



Some really good advice about prayer in your marriage, from Elder M. Russell Ballard:

Remember, also, there is great power in prayer. I strongly encourage personal and family prayer—which are important in building strong families—but I want to emphasize something else as well. I’m wondering if many of you parents—you couples—have lost that essential moment of kneeling together at the end of the day, just the two of you, holding hands and saying your prayers. If that has slipped away from your daily routine, may I suggest you put it back—beginning tonight!
This is a great time to thank the Lord for your companion and for your children and for one more day together. My wife and I have had that practice for more than 50 years now. When it is her night to pray, she offers a simple, wonderful prayer of gratitude; and when it is mine, I hope it is the same. I want to bear witness to you that it makes a difference. I do not believe Lucifer can penetrate a marriage, or cause discord and misunderstanding within a marriage and the family, when parents take time to pray together. Don’t try to work through the daily challenges of life without kneeling together and calling down the blessings of heaven into your marriage and your family, letting Heavenly Father help you get from where you are to where you would like to be.

I love this.  Just the two of you, holding hands, saying prayers.  He bears witness that it will make a difference in our marriages.  Happy Friday, friends!  Say your prayers :)
05 November 2014

10 No No's for happy relationships



1. No name calling
2. No keeping score
3. No secrets
4. No weeks without sex
5. No going to bed at different times
6. No shutting down/storming out/stonewalling during conflict
7. No humor at your partner's expense
8. No talking badly about your partner to anyone. Except maybe your therapist. ;)
9. No intimate physical or emotional connection with anyone other than your partner.
10. No punishing your partner (withholding sex, companionship, money) for a perceived wrong.

There are millions more, but these are some very common problems I see with couples.  Are any of these no no's on your regular to do list?  Which ones can you work on to improve your relationship?
 
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