1. No name calling
2. No keeping score
3. No secrets
4. No weeks without sex
5. No going to bed at different times
6. No shutting down/storming out/stonewalling during conflict
7. No humor at your partner's expense
8. No talking badly about your partner to anyone. Except maybe your therapist. ;)
9. No intimate physical or emotional connection with anyone other than your partner.
10. No punishing your partner (withholding sex, companionship, money) for a perceived wrong.
There are millions more, but these are some very common problems I see with couples. Are any of these no no's on your regular to do list? Which ones can you work on to improve your relationship?
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